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    • CommentAuthorafflelou
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2007
     
    One can be totally blind to authority and make the mistakes like in the early acarya ISKCON times, or start criticizing all that moves out of anger, envy, etc
    How to achieve the balance?
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    I think the essential is the attitude, that is, why you are being critic, if it is for some ulterior personal motivation, then watch out.
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    Just a question: Isn't disriminating already an offence?
    I heard somewhere that if you only look at the bad and wrong you'll only see the bad and wrong and you'll be blind for the good and right. And when you only look at the good and right you'll only see the good and right and you'll be blind for the bad and wrong (or something like that) :)

    Somewhere we are forgetting (not everyone) that we just have to stick with doing the Harinama Sankirtanas.

    If I have made an offence with this comment please forgive me for my ignorance...

    ys, Servant Krsna
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      CommentAuthorVEDA
    • CommentTimeAug 7th 2007
     
    Re discrimination - all places where 'viveka' is mentioned (esp. SB 11.24.2): http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=viveka+site%3Avedabase.net&btnG=Google+Search
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    But was/is it allright to discriminate even spiritually?
    • CommentAuthorafflelou
    • CommentTimeAug 7th 2007
     
    my question remains, please someone....
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      CommentAuthorabhiram
    • CommentTimeAug 9th 2007
     
    being more humble than a blade of grass, more tolerant than... you know.
    Thankful People: Servant Krsna
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      CommentAuthorekendra
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007
     
    "But was/is it allright to discriminate even spiritually?"

    Not just 'alright' but essential. Two classes of devotees don't discriminate - the Kanistha and the Uttama bhaktas.

    The challenge here is to learn the proper means of discrimination according to guru, sadhu and sastra. So long as we use Krishna's criteria to discriminate then discrimination is helpful. And i think we should always keep in mind that we are students and be open to advice and even correction if needed.
    Thankful People: Servant Krsna
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      CommentAuthorekendra
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007 edited
     
    Original question: "One can be totally blind to authority and make the mistakes like in the early acarya ISKCON times, or start criticizing all that moves out of anger, envy, etc
    How to achieve the balance?"

    Don't be blind to the past errors. Don't repeat them. Don't fall into the trap of frustration and hopeless cynicism by putting one foot in front of the other along the correct path. Absorption and satisfaction in doing the right thing will displace the despondency with which anger, envy and so many other negative things thrive. And always chant Hare Krishna (loudly if possible). That's the best advice I can think to give.
    Thankful People: phani, Servant Krsna
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      CommentAuthormishra
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007
     
    Discrimination and making offenses are terms mutually excluded.

    Discrimination means to ponder with good intelligence and scriptural evidence.

    Making offenses: first we have to find someone to whom we can "blaspheme" or commit offences, unfortunately generally it all sums up in dissension ending in being catalogued, the person in power "has been offended" and the weaker devotee in the food chain is a demon with hell as the next destination.
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      CommentAuthorphani
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007 edited
     
    blasphemy and offences aren't the same thing. you can blaspheme krsna or srila prabhupada (if you're mad enough), but you can offend anybody quite easily - and that's something we should try to avoid like hell.

    if you criticize someone in a constructive and proper way and that person labels you an 'offender,' then he's offending you, and he'll go to (or through) hell for it. that may not help in your present situation, though.

    ys phani.
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      CommentAuthormishra
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007 edited
     
    I am referring to what is commonly known and used as weapon of character destruction WCD: vaishnava aparadha, not simply offence as in the english term meaning.
    You know what I mean, do you?
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      CommentAuthorphani
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007
     
    yes, i know what you mean, but i think you were using the term "offense" too loosely. offenses are a serious matter and even when talking about them i prefer to be clear.

    not everything labeled "vaisnava aparadha" is an offense, and quite possibly using the term as a "WCD" is. on the other hand it's easy to commit real offenses, against managers or others, and that's a bad and dangerous thing to do.

    i don't know how involved you still are with these people you're writing about; is it possible to get into more detail, what you did or said, and what their reaction was?

    ys phani.
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      CommentAuthormishra
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007
     
    I have been sooo involved, up to the neck for almost 30 years, I know what I am talking about.

    It is just that every time one wants to start to talk about what is wrong, the same old story, called it offenses, aparadhas or whatever technical term you want, wise and politically correct people nod their heads, aha!

    And then for no reason (or is there one?) start backfiring at the "offender".

    Ask yourself why you do not want to go deeper in the problems, why you avoid discussing, what to speak of taking action.

    This counter attack character assassination is usually produced and encouraged by the same people that are provoking the problems or not solving them.

    And, sad as it is, promoted by what Wilhelm Reich calls "little men".

    And I am not talking about problems that could arise from being not perfect (I myself know, have been, except for GBC, in all managerial positions).

    I am talking about grave errors, profound mistakes anchored in philosophical deviances, and usually based on the lower modes of nature.

    Talking about real felons that hold positions and are protected by the establishment.

    That, is very serious matter, my friend, and cannot be dismissed by a "we are imperfect, Prabhu" type of approach.

    I agree that there are a few individuals that go around criticizing all that moves and you can see, they even use foul language and

    of course have no philosophical solid ground: It is easy to see that they are driven by anger, etc


    But to drop all of us that try to discuss and make devotees conscious of the defects with the intent of helping this movement... no, I do not

    accept you people that dismiss us. You are throwing the baby with the bath water; you are the ones really responsible for the big problems,

    as you are, in the name of sanity, being the ones that support the wrongdoers.


    Do you want to really help ISKCON? Help devotees. Start being brave.
    Thankful People: Hari Bhakta dasa
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      CommentAuthorabhiram
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2007
     
    yeah, the usual mentality is:
    haribol, i am going for a japawalk...
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      CommentAuthormishra
    • CommentTimeSep 18th 2007
     
    Hare Krishna.

    Tamala Krsna: Burnt off. [break] What is the way to draw the line
    between the following three things: blasphemy, fault-finding, and
    calling a spade a spade?

    Prabhupada: A spade a spade... Just like I am saying that "What you
    are? You are small fig only." That is reality. And what is the other?

    Tamala Krsna: The other is fault-finding and...

    Prabhupada: Fault-finding, that is another fault, that... vranam
    icchanti, maksika vranam icchanti, madhum icchanti(?) Just like the
    flies, they are finding out where is sore, and the bees, they are
    finding out where there is honey. So two animals, they have got two
    business: fault-finding and collecting the good things. These are
    two... Just like creature. They are two classes. Similarly, there are
    many rascals who are simply fault-finding.

    Tamala Krsna: And blasphemy?

    Prabhupada: Blasphemy means you have good qualities, but still, I am
    defaming you.

    Tamala Krsna: So the saintly person tends to overlook the bad
    qualities and see the good ones.

    Prabhupada: Yes.


    >>> Ref. VedaBase => Morning Walk -- February 6, 1976, Mayapura
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      CommentAuthorccd
    • CommentTimeSep 19th 2007
     
    I found myself in a similar dilemma. Instead of discriminating I would use word questioning. My resolution was that because we are not in the exactly Vedic culture the etiquette can be somewhat modified. Thus one may question seniors and even spiritual authority, but the attitude to this should be of genuine desire to help and again trinad api sunicena in the same time. We do not live in a hierarchical society, and should not pretend that seniors are 'purfict'. Its not middle ages. Its good to speak up, but in private, with good intentions and with at least external humility. Unless you want to achieve an opposite result...
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      CommentAuthoramalagaura
    • CommentTimeSep 19th 2007 edited
     
    Bhakti Vikas Maharaj wrote this on his email sangha:

    This answer by quoting Srila Prabhupada gives the key to the answer for the query: "How to understand Maharaj's lectures?"

    I just wrote to one devotee:

    "Vaisnava education is superficial if it does not aim to impart discernment of maya both inside and outside of ISKCON, if it overlooks or promotes insitution-friendly misconceptions -- such as that philosophical deviations of devotees in the role of gurus should not be addressed or even considered as such for fear of Vaisnava-aparädha. Education should be in Vaisnava philosophy, not ISKCON philosophy--between which there should be no difference."

    I invite others on this forum, who live within ISKCON with eyes open yet not making offenses, to address these points further.

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      CommentAuthorccd
    • CommentTimeSep 19th 2007
     
    Another example of this is a story of how Srila Prabhupada was approached by a devotee from ?Miami temple. He said that there is one devotee who he just can not stand. Everything he does - he does wrong. Srila Prabhupada asked him to see at least one good quality of that devotee. I always try to do just that, to see at least one good quality, its natural to see faults but if we can see at least one good quality (example of discrimination..).. Just like in these case of Bhaktivikasbhiksu - he gives such a nice Sunday feast classes...
    • CommentAuthorK.C sena
    • CommentTimeSep 20th 2007
     
    The simple method given to us devotees would be to learn the symptoms of the three modes, apply it as simple as possible, then preach the problem off/away even if it would mean calling a spade a spade or a thief a thief!!
    Why not???????
    easy said and not so easy done, however It's always done well! Krsna says: I'm the knowledge know-er and the known" Why not teach/preach it?
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      CommentAuthormishra
    • CommentTimeFeb 19th 2008 edited
     
    Let people get their own conclusions, without the fear of "aparadha", "not humble", etc. Vaishnava aparadha is dangerous, but probably there is not much opportunity to incur on it.
    Shouldn't we be prepared to "offend" whilst denouncing nonsense rather than to be gullible in the name of humility?
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